If there’s one thing that’s guaranteed in life, it’s change. Like it or not, life is a constantly moving, ever changing, nothing can stop it series of events. Even when we’d like to push the pause button and stay right where we are, the sheer force of time will move us. About the only thing we have control over is how we react to the change. We can choose to embrace it and see it as God’s hand on our lives or we can rail against it and go kicking and screaming into it. I’ve done both. Many times.
I can tell you from my experience it’s much easier (in the long run, anyway) to embrace change and look for God’s best in every situation. When I approach a situation – good or bad – with an attitude of “what is God doing in and through this”, I tend to weather the storm with a lot fewer bumps and bruises. That’s not to say that it doesn’t suck, but usually it will suck less if I don’t fight it. The hard stuff in life really does make me stronger, more sure of my faith in God and better able to help others through their particular trials. I don’t try to over-simplify challenges or over-spiritualize every situation, but the longer I walk with God, the more I understand that His timing and purposes are perfect and always, always, always better than anything I can manufacture myself.
One of my favorite scriptures is James 1: 2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. 6 But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.
There have been many times in my life that I thought “Really? Do we have to go here again? Haven’t I learned this lesson, Lord?” Obviously the answer is no, or I wouldn’t have to go through it again. Duh. Thankfully, once I get, I really get it and we can move forward again. It’s kind of like teaching your kids to say “thank you”. You remind them over and over again until one day it’s automatic. A change has happened in their little brain and something clicks. That’s how God is with us. He puts us in situations, changes things up in order for us to finally “get it” – to realize that His will is perfect and he only has the very best for us. In everything. All we have to do is trust Him. Pretty simple, really.
Taking JOY in the journey,
Lori